Quit being narcissistic and nagging

Hi! I am busy with exams but thought of writing because I could not write one in so long. I hope anyone reading this finds it well!

It has been some strange months for real, things happening and not happening at the same time, it's confusing ik. This shall pass though. I have no fricking idea what I'm gonna write as usual but I just wanna keep writing until I end up writing something or the other.

Have you ever come across a person who is so self-centered that they turn every convo about themselves. I used to wonder whether I'm the same, I hope not because it is the most annoying thing that I came across. I can be pretty tolerant with people but them being 'narcissistic' is something I just can't deal with. I get super annoyed and want to run away from them. Somebody will be seriously talking about something and this narcissist would end up explaining their experiences that nobody asked for completely dropping the one who is talking. What I see in them is the lack of empathy and the desire for validation and attention. I even have asked people, whether I'm the same because if I'm so, I myself never want to associate someone like that either. It is frustrating! You can abandon our friendship if I'm so, I won't say a thing.

Also the nagging ones, I could be nagging as well, but it is draining. Telling and complaining repeatedly about almost everything. I mean solve your problems yourself because complaining and telling people does not do any good but annoy them. I try my best to avoid complaining because I know how frustrating it is to be near someone who nags. I sometimes want to tell them to just shut up. Like this is not working, that is too loud, that is hard, like what the hell I'm supposed to about it, it is your problem, not MINE! ugh. I mean I totally get it, you sometimes want things off your chest, telling people your concerns is not a problem at all but repeating the same thing over and over: is the issue.

Yeah, I think that's about it for now, see y'all soon! Quit being narcissistic and nagging!✌